Educating Students about Drug Use and Mental Health - Grade 9: Expectation 5 Teaching Learning Strategy 2
Demonstrate and use decision-making and assertion skills with respect to media influences and peer pressure related to alcohol,
tobacco and other drugs.
Bold Text between the orange lines are excerpts from Grade 9 Healthy Active Living Education Course Profile, Unit 3, Activities
4 & 5.

Activity 5: Using Strategies to Manage Substance Use and Abuse
Teaching/Learning Strategy 2:
Review the concept of assertion and refusal skills. Have the students create a list of strategies that teenagers would use
to refuse drugs. Ask them to describe the technique and its suitability in various situations. Refusal techniques that should
be included are: no thanks, making an excuse, walking away, avoidance and changing the subject.

Teacher Background Information
From experience in elementary school, students should be familiar with assertion and refusal skills, and techniques for dealing
with influences. Ongoing practice and application to relevant and typical situations is needed.
Assertiveness
Characteristics of assertive communication:
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Strong and steady voice
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Direct and to the point
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"I" statements
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Confident
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Honest
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Aware of people's feelings
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Eye-to-eye contact
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Open to resolution of problem
Comparison of assertive, aggressive and non-assertive communication:
Assertive
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Aggressive
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Non-Assertive
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Strong and steady voice
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Loud and explosive voice
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Soft, uncertain voice |
Good eye contact *
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Intimidating looks
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Downcast eyes
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Strong body language
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Intimidating body language
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Shifting weight back and forth |
Aware of other feelings (sensitive)
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Insensitive (what you want isn't important)
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Doesn't feel comfortable talking about how he or she feels
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Confident
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Demanding
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Nervous
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| In control |
Cannot control temper
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Uncertain
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This is what I think
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This is what I want
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My thoughts aren't important
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"I" statements
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"You'd better", "If you don't, then look out"
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"I guess, maybe"
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I would like to hear what you think
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This is what I want

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Is everyone else doing it?

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*Teachers are reminded to be sensitive to cultural variations.
Hot Tips for Teachers for Skills/Techniques to Deal with Influences /Pressures
Include:
1. Delay Techniques
Don't make any decisions until you have had time to think it over. Includes statements such as:
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Please, not now, I'm not ready.
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Sorry, my friend's waiting. We'll decide later.
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I'm busy right now. Let's find a better time to talk about this.
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Let's wait and make a decision in a week or two.
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I need to talk to someone else first.
2. Negotiation Skills
Try to find a decision you think is acceptable to both parties. Includes statements such as:
3. Refusal Techniques/Skills
Note to teachers: If students have encountered this activity in previous grades and meet the desired expectations, you may
have them develop/share their own techniques that they currently use.
There are many different ways to say "No" to peer pressure. Some of these techniques are:
| "No thanks" technique |
"Would you like a smoke?" "No thanks." |
Give a reason or excuse
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"Do you want a drink?" "No thanks, I have basketball practice."
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Broken record
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"Just try this joint." "No way." "Come on, just one puff!" "No way." "Come on." "No way." "Don't worry. You won't get caught, wimp." "I said, No Way!"
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| Walk away |
"Are you coming outside for a smoke?" Say "No" and walk away while saying it.
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| Avoid the situation |
If you know or see places where people often cause trouble, stay away from those places or go another way.
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Cold shoulder
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"Hey, are you coming to the party on Saturday There will be lots of beer!" Just ignore the person.
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| Change the subject. |
Start talking about something else "Do you want some beer?" "Hey! I'm not into this music at all. I'm going to go request something else."
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| Strength in numbers |
Hang around with people you trust, especially in problem situations.
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Humour - make a joke of the situation
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"Want a beer?" "No thanks, too much work with my button fly."
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| State a health problem |
"Do you want to smoke?" "No thanks, I'm allergic to smoke."
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Reverse the pressure
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" I saw beer in your fridge. You should get it." "You get it if you want it so badly."
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Refusal Techniques/Skills - Student Worksheet:
Under each of the headings, describe how you can use this technique to avoid substance use.
1. "No thanks" technique:
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2. Give a reason or excuse:
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3. Broken record:
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4.Walk away:
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5. Avoiding the situation:
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6. Cold shoulder:
_______________________________________________________________
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7. Change the subject:
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8. Reverse the pressure:
_______________________________________________________________
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9. Strength in numbers:
_______________________________________________________________
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10. Humour:
_______________________________________________________________
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11. State a health problem:
_______________________________________________________________
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(Adapted with permission from “Drug Abuse Prevention Program Educational Resources (DAPPER)”, Toronto District School Board,
1996.)
Refusal Techniques/Skills - Additional Activities:
1. Refusal Role-Play:
Students work in small groups of four or five. Each student selects one of the following activities to explain or role-play
for the small group.
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Choose a couple of your favourite refusal skills and explain why.
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Choose two refusal skills that are most difficult for you and explain why.
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Choose two refusal skills that you would recommend to a younger sibling. Why would you recommend these?
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Choose a refusal skill to role-play for the group. The group identifies the refusal skill and discusses ways to make it more
effective.
2. Refusal Skills Charades:
Students work in groups of four or six. Cut refusal techniques/skills worksheet into slips of paper. One pair of students
selects a refusal skill and, using charades, acts out the skill to the rest of the group. The group tries to determine what
skill is being portrayed and discusses in which situations this technique would be most effective.